These are my heros. All three of us. Cath Duncan, Christina Greenway, and myself.

We did it. We walked 100 kilometres in three days.

This picture was taken at the end of the second day – the 38 kilometre day that we thought we couldn’t survive. The last 8 kilometres or so of that day were some of the most painful moments of my life.

I survived them (and every other painful kilometre) mostly because these other two amazing women were at my side. We held each other up, we laughed together (rather hysterically sometimes) when laughter was the only thing keeping us from tears, we hooted at shirtless cowboys together, we applied moleskin to blisters together, we tried to write a marching song to help us take those next few steps that felt like the hardest thing we’d ever done in our lives, and we crossed the finish line arm in arm.

These women are the REAL THING. They are pure gold. They are the kind of people you want by your side when it feels like the next step is too painful to take alone.

Two days later, I am still processing the big-ness of this accomplishment. It’s the kind of experience that I know will grow in meaning as time passes. In the middle of the experience, your primary thought is “I just have to live through the pain of this next step. And then the one after that. And the one after that.” You don’t have a lot of head space for big thoughts or meaning-finding.

But then the next day, the immensity of it begins to sink in. And the biggest thought that sticks with me right now is this…

If you’re going on a journey that will involve many painful steps, find good people who will walk the journey with you.

Community. That is the biggest lesson I will take away from this journey.

I found community in the hearts of these two women.

Even though I’d never met them in person before, I was confident enough that I could trust them with my painful journey, and that trust was not misplaced.

Find good people. And be that good person to other people who need you. And when you find each other, and you hold each other up along the sometimes painful and sometimes glorious journey, do not take each other for granted.

Cath and Christina, thank you for being my two good people on this journey. Your account at the Bank of Heather is full to the brim.

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