IMPORTANT UPDATE

As of April 2024, my blog has moved over to Substack where I’m co-hosting A Tender Space (together with my business partner at Centre for Holding Space). You can find my new writing plus podcast episodes there, or sign up below to get them in your inbox.

Here’s some of my earlier writing… 

What do you say?

In the car the other day, we were listening to a report about a women's shelter somewhere in the middle east. The woman who runs the shelter was telling the stories of some of the women who'd come to them, desperate and alone. Sometimes, she said, they didn't get to...

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Lookin’ on the bright side

While I was trying to untangle a knot in a string Maddie brought me, she said, "Look on the bright side Mom." "And what, my dear, IS the bright side?" I asked. "If you can't do it, Daddy will be able to. 'Cause he's stronger than you."And then, because I'm stubborn...

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My writing place

I think I may need to build an office in the graveyard. Not just any graveyard - the graveyard where my son is buried.Whenever I need a little peace and quiet, and perhaps some clarity of thought, I visit his grave. It's become a bit of a ritual. I often take my...

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Take the challenge

I think I'll take this blogger up on his challenge. It's a good one.Anyone have their eye on any of my stuff? Let me know and I'll see if I have the guts to give it up.

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Signs of sadness

I arrived at work late this morning, and just before I dashed over to the meeting I had to attend at the hotel next door, I glanced down at my shirt. There it was - the telltale sign of sadness. Snot on my shoulder. Little four-year-old snot from a sad little girl who...

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Maddie’s directorial debut

This is what happens when a four-year-old learns to use a video camera.Videography: MaddieDirection: MaddieCamera-person: MaddieScript: MaddieStarring: MaddieSongwriting: Maddie

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Remembering

All over the internet, people are remembering 9/11. Though I’m a country away, and may not have been impacted as much as our neighbours to the south, I remember too.It was Nikki’s first day of kindergarten. Few thoughts were on my mind that morning, other than the...

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Some of the random bits floating around in my brain

- Although I'm not a very orderly person, I love order. I love it when all the pieces are lined up and fitted into their designated slots. I spent a little bit of time finding order in our lives this weekend - lining up the budget, cleaning house, doing laundry. I get...

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