by Heather Plett | Mar 17, 2008 | Uncategorized
We made it to Dhaka, Bangladesh! Most of the little hurdles have been crossed succesfully. We still don’t know if we’ll get into India, but I’ll leave that worry for another day.
The people of Bangladesh have been incredibly hospitable and gracious. We have been warmly welcomed here.
Now here’s hoping I’ll sleep well tonight and tomorrow I’ll no longer feel quite so much like my body’s been dragged through a meat grinder. Arriving at 2:00 a.m. after 24 hours in transit is pretty exhausting.
by Heather Plett | Mar 15, 2008 | Uncategorized
I’m going to Bangladesh. There are still some fairly major hurdles to cross, but I’m going.
In the meantime, though, I’ve gotta go play My Little Pony, the board game, with Maddie. She’s been attached to my hip all morning – trying to get the most Mommy time she can.
I probably won’t blog much, but I’ll tell you all about it when I return.
Cheers!
by Heather Plett | Mar 6, 2008 | Uncategorized
I sat in the parking lot, working up the nerve to go inside. Could I do this? Could I really make a change this big? More importantly, could I stick with it? “God,” I whispered, “if this body really is your temple, you’re going to have to help me treat it that way.” I opened the car door and walked across the parking lot.
“I want to sign up for a membership,” I told the girl behind the desk – quickly, before I could lose my nerve. “Here’s a list of the classes you can join,” she said, after I’d filled out the necessary paperwork and handed her a cheque. “There are lots of choices of times for aerobics classes, step classes, yoga, etc. Or if you prefer, you can just use the machines and weights. What time of day do you think you’ll be coming in?” “Six o’clock in the morning,” I said, gulping a little at my bravado. “Really?” that other little voice whispered in my head. “You REALLY think you can get up that early in the morning to go to the gym? Ha! You’ve gotta be kidding!”
Trying to ignore the pessimist in my brain, I set two goals for myself. Lose at least 30 pounds by my birthday (in May), and run the 2.6 mile super-run with Nikki at the marathon in June.
That was January 21st. In the seven weeks since, I’ve been at the gym at least six mornings a week – usually at six o’clock in the morning. At least forty-two times, I’ve proved the pessimist wrong.
As of this morning, I have lost 11 pounds. And just this morning I ran 2.6 miles on the treadmill without stopping. If you’re not an overweight, out-of-shape over-forty-year-old, you might not know just how good that feels. Just believe me when I say it’s so SO good.
Even better? It turns out that I LOVE going to the gym. Really love it. Crazy, eh? I look forward to it so much that I often consider going in the evening too. And on the rare weekend morning when I have to miss because of a soccer game or a trip to the airport, I’m disappointed.
Other than riding my bike in the summer and chasing after small children, I’ve done very little exercise in the twelve years that I’ve been a mom. I haven’t been a member of a gym since back in my single days. I really didn’t expect to enjoy this. I thought it would be pure torture every single day, and after a month or so of subjecting myself to torture just because I’d paid for it and didn’t want to waste the money, I’d drop out.
But – surprise, surprise – it’s not torture. Sure it’s tough, and I’m not too fond of dragging my tired body out of bed that early. But mostly it’s delightful. It’s delightful walking the three blocks to get there in the crisp quiet morning air. (Yes, I’m lucky it’s so close.) It’s delightful pushing my body to new limits. It’s delightful feeling the pain of the last push of adrenaline at the end of the workout. It’s delightful getting to know some of the other women who are mostly very much like me at a small homey neighbourhood gym. It’s especially delightful stepping into a warm shower afterwards and letting the water wash the sweat from my body.
I keep expecting the novelty will wear off (there goes that pessimist again). It hasn’t.
What surprises me the most is just how spiritual it feels to be pounding out my footprints on the treadmill or flexing my muscles on the weight machines. With my music playing in my ears, it feels like meditation – like prayer. Even a little like communion. It feels like God really is visiting this humble temple.
by Heather Plett | Mar 6, 2008 | Uncategorized
My new friend Pugeni has taken to calling me “Mom”. Umm… that would have made me TWELVE when I gave birth to him. I think it must be a sign of respect in his culture to call an older woman Mom. I don’t mind. He’s a good son. 🙂
He’s left us for the west. I’ll miss him. He inspired me in ways that will stick with me for a long, long time.
While he was here, I took him to visit the snow sculptures. They completely dumbfounded him. “People do this for RECREATION? In the FREEZING COLD? And then it all melts in the Spring?” Too puzzling for him to comprehend.
He left me with a present. A bar of soap. “This is what the rich people use in Zimbabwe.” It probably cost him a fortune – especially in a country in which the economic situation is so unstable they can rarely get milk in the markets, let alone soap. (Their inflation rate is 150,000 percent. Yes, that’s really FOUR zeros. He says that it’s increasing so rapidly, the price of a carton of milk can go up in the time it takes to carry it to the cash register.)
He can probably never afford to buy a bar of this kind of soap for his wife, and yet he brought one for me. I feel completely humbled by it. (And I felt a little guilty remembering how I’d so callously unwrapped a bar of Dove so he could have a shower that morning.) I haven’t decided whether to leave it in its wrapper on my bathroom counter to remind myself how privileged I am, or to lather up every day in honour of him. (“I’ll feel like a rich woman,” I said to him when he gave it to me.)
Some day, I want to go to Zimbabwe to visit him.
by Heather Plett | Mar 3, 2008 | Uncategorized
I think every North American should have the opportunity to host someone from a developing country in their home at least once in their lifetime. It’s delightful to watch the wonder in their eyes, and humbling to see the shock.
Pugeni is visiting from Zimbabwe. Today was his first full day in a country outside of Southern Africa. There were many firsts for him today – the first sight of snow (“wow – I had no idea it would cover EVERYTHING! And you can walk on it!”), the first visit to a Canadian church, the first trip to a North American grocery store with shelves overflowing with abundance, the first Slurpee (my kids were determined he needed that experience), the first time bundled up in layers of jackets, gloves and a hat (while the rest of us celebrated the relatively lovely weather by walking around in unzipped jackets) – the list goes on and on. By the end of the day, he looked completely overwhelmed with the newness of it all.
Pugeni’s life is so much different than ours. He is thrilled to be visiting Canada, but he can hardly comprehend all that he is seeing. “You can get milk every day from the store? In Zimbabwe, we rarely have milk available anymore.” “These vegetables you’re serving for lunch – this is what the rich people eat in Zimbabwe.” “I think people in Canada like to drive big cars. And so many of them drive alone.” “It seems like people here really like to eat.” “Everything is so CHEAP here! You mean you can buy batteries for FOUR dollars?!” “You have it so GOOD here!”
The most humbling of his comments was his response to our house – a house that by North American standards in very modest (and about half of the square footage of an average-sized house). More than once, he mentioned how big our house is. That was even before he’d seen it all. There was a look of shock on his face when I took him downstairs to the family room where I’d prepared a bed for him. “You have ANOTHER room down here?” he asked, incredulously. “My, your house is SO BIG!” And then he spotted our second computer. “You have computers everywhere!”
I started to feel embarrassed about the abundance I was now noticing as I looked around the house and glimpsed it through his eyes. Two rooms full of comfortable couches to sit on. Two tables for people to eat at. Two bathrooms. Shelves and shelves of books. Electric lights to brighten every room. More clothes than we can fit in our closets. A pantry and freezer full of food. Abundance beyond his wildest imagination.
He told us a story of a time when he’d been visiting Botswana. He’d traveled to the local market and had been so surprised to see the availability of meat that he’d bought 7 pounds of it, quite certain that he’d lucked out and visited the market on a rare day when meat was readily available. When he’d arrived back at the house of his host, proud of his wealth of meat, his host had laughed at him and said “but there’s ALWAYS meat at the market – we could just buy more tomorrow!” Living in Zimbabwe, where the economy is deteriorating on almost a daily basis, he’d grown accustomed to the scarcity of precious food like meat and oil.
After lunch today, I was glad that Pugeni was out of the kitchen when I loaded the dishwasher. Suddenly I felt embarrassed by the ease of my lifestyle, where water flows freely into a machine that does my dishes for me.
Pugeni is sleeping now, in my “luxurious” basement. Ironically, he almost didn’t stay with us, because I usually don’t think we have enough room for overnight guests (after all – they have to sleep in the family room because we don’t have a spare bedroom). How could I ever think that, with all of this space? Why do I still always want more? Why have I never noticed just how much food is sitting on our pantry shelves? Why do I worry about my ratty furniture and stained carpets?
I hope I remember the look on Pugeni’s face the next time I wish my house were just a little bit bigger.
by Heather Plett | Feb 28, 2008 | Uncategorized
Sitting behind me on the bus this morning was a man who was having an interesting conversation. At first I thought he was on a cell phone, but I soon realized there was no cell phone, nor was there anyone sitting with him engaged in the other side of the conversation. No, his only travel companion was in his own mind.
The conversation went something like this:
Billions of people do it. Every day. New born babies do it….
I saw a photograph of Jesus Christ once. It was like those pictures where a million tiny pictures make up one bigger picture…
You have to understand, son – you usually get so upset…
It’s KK. You know – KK – with Tom and Joe on 92 CITI FM…
I’m Metis. Aboriginal. But white too. White people don’t like me and Aboriginal people don’t like me either….
People say to me “smoking will kill you”, but none of us is going to live forever, are we? Maybe we are. Maybe we are….
I know whom I have believed…
I’m not German, but I’m Dutch…
It was an interesting bus ride. I wonder what journey his mind was taking him on. I also wonder whether, if those of us who feel like we have a good handle on our mental capacity were to speak every one of our random thoughts, it might sound a little similar.
