

IMPORTANT UPDATE
As of April 2024, my blog has moved over to Substack where I’m co-hosting A Tender Space (together with my business partner at Centre for Holding Space). You can find my new writing plus podcast episodes there, or sign up below to get them in your inbox.
Here’s some of my earlier writing…
Thursday Thirteen
Thirteen completely unrelated things:1. I had a lovely lunch with my friend Suzanne today. Her life is in a really good zone right now (job promotion, re-united with her boyfriend, etc.), which makes me happy because it hasn’t always been that way.2. Michele, if you...
Okay that’s quite enough sadness for one blog!
Before you all run screaming from my blog for fear that I might drag you deep into the pit of despair, I promise I'll place a moratorium on depressing posts for awhile. Seriously, now that that's out of my system, I will turn to happy thoughts.Our life is good. Really...
Matthew
He would be six years old today.What does six look like, when you’re a boy?Would he catch frogs and climb trees?Would he obsess about hockeyOr would he prefer painting?Would he tease his sisters?Would he fall in love with his first grade teacher?Would he already know...
The darkest day
Warning: This is not an easy-to-read post and should not be read by children. If you're one of the children connected to GNF who likes to blog or read blogs, PLEASE don't read this. You can read the post below this one instead.Eleven years ago yesterday was quite...
When pigs fly
As I've said before, Maddie and I have the best conversations in the bathtub. This one happened last night:Maddie (pointing to my tummy): Do you have a baby in your tummy?Me: Nope. You were the last baby I had in my tummy.Maddie: What about Matthew?Me: Matthew was in...
Longing for baby
Yesterday morning in church, I put my arms around a young mother who’d lost her first baby to miscarriage (yes she IS a mother none-the-less). My eyes filled with tears as I expressed my sadness for the life she’d lost. It’s never fair. It’s never easy. And even...
This one’s for you, Anvilcloud
I couldn't resist. 🙂
I love a shrinking “to do” list!
1. Agree to final edits of video production for "An Uncomfortable Truth" (yeah, it is SO a knock-off of Al Gore's film title, but it works) and get it and the cover graphic to the production company. CHECK.2. Sign off on design work of a huge project (magazine,...
Meme’s the word
I hardly ever get around to doing memes (my apologies if I ignored yours and offended you -please try not to take it personally), but I'm bored tonight, there's nothing good on TV, and I really don't feel like doing something mature and productive like laundry. (Plus...
This is what it looks like when you let go of a plane 4500 feet above the earth
Yes (in case you're looking closely at my face) I screamed. Wouldn't you? See the little blue blob above my head? That's the pilot chute which the instructor releases while you exit the plane. It automatically ejects your main chute.In case you've come late to this...

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