

IMPORTANT UPDATE
As of April 2024, my blog has moved over to Substack where I’m co-hosting A Tender Space (together with my business partner at Centre for Holding Space). You can find my new writing plus podcast episodes there, or sign up below to get them in your inbox.
Here’s some of my earlier writing…
The answers
Just what you were looking for...1. How do you put up with 2 kids that are puking AND whining and not just climb back into bed and lock them out of the bedroom?Ha! If I had the answer to THAT, I could write a parenting book, make millions, and then hire you a nanny so...
Go ahead and ask
So... I feel like writing a blog post, but my mind is drawing a blank (something it's been doing quite frequently of late). This is where I turn to you, my few but faithful readers.Ask me something. Anything. It's your chance to find out some bit of information you've...
It’s Thursday, right?
1. We’re moving offices next week, but I haven’t packed a single box. I’m mastering the art of procrastination.2. Julie is – true to her nature – delightfully stubborn about what she can accomplish with only her left hand (she’s right handed and that’s the one she...
Soccer injury
It's been an eventful week around here. Two visits to hospitals, one surgery, one broken arm, five presentations, one business trip, one head cold (mine)... too much.I want to go back to uneventful.
The gift
“Bridge or ferry?” he asks me, as we prepare to leave the Island. “Ferry,” I say. “The bridge disappoints me with its high walls and lack of a good view of the ocean. I love ferries.”“I like the way you think,” he grins. “Ferry it is.”After a hearty farmhouse...
She can hear me now when I whisper her name
And I hope that what I surmised earlier ends up being true - that the change in personality in the last year and a half - from precocious to tentative, from outgoing to shy, from bold to inclined toward anxiety - can at least partially be attributed to the reduced...
All is well
Maddie had minor surgery this morning (tubes in her ears), and only a couple of hours later she is up and about and feeling fine (though the sounds she's now hearing are surprising her in their intensity). The same little girl who had a major panic attack (and took a...
Halloween
The costumes - handmade by mom...Happy Pumpkin Man (and friend)...Trick-or-treating with the cousins...
When Halloween is still magic
When she is sixteen years old, rushing off to a halloween party with her friends and no longer interested in trick-or-treating with Mom, I want to remember six-year-old Maddie, blowing out the candle in the jack-o-lantern, turning off the kitchen light (even though I...
They make me so proud
Nikki and Julie to Maddie before heading to a movie: “Of COURSE we don’t buy candy at the movie theatre. It’s way too expensive. Instead we go to Bulk Barn to stock up on cheap candy and then we bring a big purse along so we can stuff it with our own snacks. When...

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